The new girl in the new era, is the current situation has created of their personality, while the girls are constantly changing the times, they are beautiful.
This is true, they are colorful embellishment this time, the girls is so important, then give them the sacred time is it should be a feminist.
No car but no room to cook
I first met Sally, deeply felt her beauty and intelligent.
After graduating college in Sichuan, and she came to Shanghai one person alone. Initially, the sales lady to do is to be two years, she has become that company's youngest sales manager. Later still, marketing manager, media manager, now an investment consulting firm, as project director, she remains in the forward march fast.
Of course, the career success does not mean do not understand life, Sally love of travel, but also play golf, even playing in the flying saucer, she Professor Zeng Yeyu Latin dance award. In such a rich and sensual woman in front of you are saying that the gift of the Creator, has allowed her are beautiful, intelligent all in one.
However, when I read the newspaper who interviewed her, magazines, used on a woman or a young entrepreneur Fujie tone asked her "How are your current income, the number of assets" when, Sally turned immediately flushed , repeatedly waving denial, "No! I have no house, no car, but I will cook!" the nervous look, as if women have an apartment and a car, but not cook, will be a great sin.
Original, Sally and her age, a group of similar conditions, similar to the girlfriend, according to her own words, "They are all better than I am." Unfortunately, the good go well, they are all over 30 are still pending word boudoir. When we get together, the most enthusiastic talking about, that is, "Sex and the City" to participate "8 minute dating" women lawyers.
Initially, the women lawyers an opening on the date to say, "I am a lawyer," "I was an important partner of the firm," "I am ... ..." As a result, no one interested in her. Later, she had changed to say: "I am, nothing will, nothing." I did not expect warm up immediately opposite the man of her eloquent presentation of their own.
"Really, nobody wanted a woman, the stronger the more you?" Sally said she did not know that, as editor I do not know.
But we all know, many of the common ordinary woman, are happy to get married, have their own warm home and children, we are still a loner, wandering in the city.
I can lean on the shoulder by a pair of
I am confident that the crowds every day, there are numerous and Sally as good as the woman, dressed bright appearance, is struggling to support the dolphin's heart. For a girl from a foreign land, it survived and "mix a personal kind of" there is more pressure, especially, when loneliness comes, in addition to the face of frustration and, more expect a solid shoulder, you can rely on.
Sally told me that each of Mid-Autumn Festival, a group of girlfriends who will encourage each other, "Come on! Will find a good man!" But the second year, but still one person alone. I think of another female guest told me, "Many of my male friends, but to admit that he is a boyfriend, really hard." I thought she was demanding, and now think of it, fear is also a frustration have taken persist.
Love is always lost in space and time distance
Of course, the Italian men, at some point there will always be the right time if not met a right person, the result was aborted. Sally had a "he" is the famous French director of the bank, when the company sent him to Paris to work and promotion, love and career, a moment that he could not choose between.
As if all the naive girls are willing to sacrifice for love, Sally said to him, "Go, your career is more important." And then a full 3 years, but he kept receiving postcards and small gifts, but never opportunity to met. Still later, a shaman in the afternoon sun, he finally called and said: "break up, I know you are tired."
No quarrel, we all accept the reality calmly. Who said "If the two love long long But this is not in the day and night?" How many love to defeat the distance in time and space.
Red Dust was removed, we miss
From 27 to 30 years old, Sally seems to have been in love with the air. Paris, sometimes not always as romantic, as well as breaking up with a broken heart. "In fact, those 3 years, I really miss a lot of people are in very good condition of the boys, but I would rather abandon the
A vague love, is it really stupid? "Sally asked me melancholy, and I do not know how to answer. Do not be stupid, director of the sally of course, can sometimes, a marriage certificate Shangqie not stop change of heart the wings, let alone the section is not earth-shattering love
Think of some of my girlfriend, always like to make two boyfriends at the same time, I feel safer this way, at least one road leads to nowhere, there is another in the. In this lack of security, even love, need to backup the age and promises, only a few of the girls really can do it. While Sally is responsible for the good girl, but ended up alone in the city confused. "I'm feeling responsible, who may be responsible for my future life?"
Do not know why, the more outstanding women of the material conditions require less, sally the requirements of the ideal mate within the same pay more attention to, rather than external economic conditions. Only in such a crowded city, she will encounter in life is really open-minded and tolerant that him?
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