1, he suddenly listen to reason in the wine on the table
Man scene: a group of friends, he drank too much. Only she knows every time he drank too much, not only loves villain, but also hurt the body. So she Ququan him. However, some men using alcohol to succeed like pride, three glasses of wine down, he launched a drunken, and buddies have to test our children drinker. Yong her girlfriends counseling pipe her husband, she can not face without a face in his girlfriend, then grabbed her husband's glasses, let him drink out. Her children move to a burst of booing his buddy, said he was henpecked. MAN, the most important thing is to face, how can the man to lose face in front of children. By Jiu Jin chosen to drink his, not only to drink, but also single-handedly pushed her, let her Mind your own business.
Predictably, she and he it would be more on the strength of a wine glass to capture each other to prove their "tame-fu technique," a chosen to win back the right to drink to prove the dignity of man, but why had met on a bunch of people booing, the results striking scene took place, he yelled to her, "Get out of here!"
Lost control of his secret:
Guy face, maybe he was at home lying on the ground you can make a good husband might ride, but on the outside, he must prove that he is a man of indomitable spirit. This is about dignity, and his wife has nothing to do whether patriotic, so seemingly trivial insisted the drinks upon, in his view, he may face a major injury. Therefore, the more the wife insisted that he tried to stubborn in the end. At this time, he proved his loss of control is a face-saving move, although later, he might order a few days to apologize to the wife of self-punishment, but that moment, he must use the control to prove he is good like.
This makes it difficult to accept women. Smart's wife to know when not to challenge him in that so-called face problems. Advantage of the opportunity to give him to the next level, so he really out of control up.
2, he suddenly did not want to work
Man-site: This is the thing in the United States: He was a bus driver, hard work most of their lives. In the eyes, his love of work, is a working model-like figure. Several decades, he has his own line in the rain or shine. But one day, he made a surprise move: first, he did not go according to the original line, he threw away a camel rebellious passengers, the car drove to a small river, facing the overwhelming interest from the media reporter, he proudly said: he hated standardized and remain unchanged, and that today he is finally back to myself one.
Life is there are not many like this, he, like bus drivers? One day, he suddenly did not want to work to walk away, he wanted to resign, want to go to Tibet to play, in short, he was like a naughty child in general, who suddenly have to throw away all the responsibility, abandoned the family, regardless of the Qierlaoxiao all.
Lost control of his secret:
Men Huode Lei, under the old and small, so from his youth, he may not himself, he gave up a vision and passion for the word "responsibility" to live. For responsibility, he looks hard, but actually they are more eager to unrestrained, eager to relax and free.
The so-called extremes meet, the more responsibility and burden of the body weight, self-repression and resistance of the heart will be more intense, we often in middle-aged men who typically see this. In an analysis of why the IT industry, frequent job-hopping phenomenon of middle-aged executives study, experts say, this is middle-aged man eager to return to self-expression.
For responsibility, he was very tired. One day, he suddenly acted out of control like a wayward adolescent children. When his dream of going to look younger, get rid of the responsibility he has to relax for a time, he's out of control is for an outbreak of pressure, this time, as his wife, might forgive him, give him appropriate to support it.
3, many people in front of his face suddenly burst into tears
Man field: he is a strong man, tough guy is representative of everybody's eyes. He is a Chinese version of Arnold Schwarzenegger, all-conquering. He is chairman of a company, his staff had never seen him in tears. In his view, the tears are a sign of weakness. He hated the emotional, that there is only one deep solemn man, only like a good man.
But one day, many people in front of his face suddenly burst into tears, it was a regular meeting of the company, is in a meeting when his secretary came suddenly to him, whisper a message. Secretary soon as he finished, he suddenly burst into tears in front of everybody's face, he did not tactful to howl. He looked to all the people were terrified. They later learned, the secretary brought the tragic death of his grandmother the news. At that moment, he reveal the truth, so that he can not hide the sadness in tears.
Lost control of his secret:
Too much theory so that men do not easily shed tears, over time, the man himself is not a man that the performance of tears. That like a bitch children, they look down on tears man. Society teaches men should be serious, deep, man is also in accordance with such norms restrain itself. But such a specification so that men seem to gradually lose the feeling, become flesh and blood did not live in general. In fact, he is after all real people, true feelings, when necessary, so once encountered something touch the critical point of his emotions, he may get out of control will not help crying.
This is a good thing out of control, to some extent, so out of control in order to become more amiable man, but also allows his emotions to vent, the more health, a long-repressed feelings of the men, life expectancy than the average person will short.
4, his act of violence
Man field: He was a university professor, notice of management. Everyone can not imagine that he actually can be linked to domestic violence, but it does one day he beat his wife out, and heavy shot. It was a normal fight, his wife blamed his late home. He could recognize a mistake, but in his later words, "my wife is somewhat 得理不饶人." Their escalating argument, he has been tolerant at first, then he felt no way out, to get his wife to shut the way is to use force, he hit her, a slap down, two people were stunned. Wife did not think he can even play himself, but he did not expect a child, he hated his father most of domestic violence, and make their own husbands, after repeating his father's old actually.
Lost control of his secret:
Why would a good man in the exercise of force in domestic disputes? It should be said, many men was a child, witnessed his father after the mother of violence, must hate these acts of violence. But an adult, they do not consciously still making the same mistakes. Psychology theory, this is because the more the lack of growth in the small environment of love, the more they do not learn in a peaceful way to settle disputes of love.
Calm, they may suppress their impulse to such violence, they told themselves; beat his wife is wrong, so that more people will hate yourself. But subconsciously, they feel violence is the best way to solve the problem. Although many men of violence have been reflected in the first punch when they go, they do not believe their actually would do such things.
5, the good gentleman's foul language
Man field: He is a gentleman all exemplary representatives recognized, performance is as follows; he would get off her, always attentive to the car door for her. He will even eat in the wild, but also opt for a full dress, he graduated from the elite, the father is a senior cadres of the ministries, the mother is the name of the door lady, when she decided to marry him, is the fancy that.
But one day, when she witnessed the performance of his impatience, which is reflected to her surprise, it did not think "gentleman crazy." This man will at some point, swearing Lianpian. It was once a crossroads, going through the red light, a car suddenly cut in, he has come to an emergency brake, it seems unconscious, he was facing away driver shouted abuse, with impunity, like a uneducated American cowboy.
She was puzzled why a man like him would scold vulgarities gentleman?
Lost control of his secret:
"Sex and the City" Samantha once wanted to try and love the feeling of a gentleman. She thought that the gentleman must be polite when making love, tenderness, but did not expect the other side of her bed and suddenly shouted. This allows Samantha was an accident, but the other party for strong sexual pleasure.
Why do men get out of control when the gentleman will be using foul language? Foul language and cultural look at a typical representative of the United States can explore the reasons for cowboy. Cowboys who like to use swear words to show their masculinity, men are also in the secular life. A gentleman of the men then, using foul language to prove their masculinity in the cultural genes actually been hidden in his heart, even though the gene is being affected by the efforts of a gentleman to do be suppressed, but when taking it every chance, it will his breakthrough .
6, a good man one-night stand
Man field: He is a good husband, wife in the eyes, the eyes of his children a good father. His gentle, considerate, cares about, or even maintain the current wage a rare turn in the good habit of time. He likes to take a walk after dinner with his wife, he had no love affair, in others it seems, he is also hard to find a good man lantern.
But a business trip, his friends encouraged him to find Miss have fun. Children who are left hug buddy hold the right, he had wanted to resist, but it does not seem to feel that they face, this is not like a man. The key is, that lady looks blurred vision with the allure of a snake, he can not help but have some distracted as a result, he went to her bed.
It was derailed his first and only once, afterwards, his wife do not believe in any case, the husband of her eyes has always been honest, how will make things like that.
Lost control of his secret:
A so-called good men, why will find Miss Lost and Delirious? This men's prostitute culture relations. Sociologists survey found that some men did not want to get lost in the sensual places, but the child if his buddies are doing, and he did not do, it makes him feel the pressure: First, he does not like a man - Most men look at it as a sign of masculinity; Second, he felt a sense of loneliness, he did not want because they do not visit a prostitute and drifted away from his buddies outside the circle, or looked down on by his buddies - The most feared man abandoned by his group.
Sensual places out of control, but also, and man from his wife and some ethical monitoring are related. Once a man out of a familiar environment, he will be called particularly strong sense of indulgence. This is why most business men, the reason is easy out of control.
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