2010年11月6日星期六

Seven habits to make your love more durable

First, to encourage and praise the most important
When men and women just fall in love, bound to praise each other's advantages, with the fixed relationship, the temperature dropped slightly after the first people to do less of this kind of thing, even though two people still very much enamored of each other, but have been will not say it out loud the words of praise and encouragement.

If the lack of sincere praise and encouragement, the initial compliment to each other and bring the wonderful feeling of gratitude would be greatly reduced, a direct result of the emotional connection that they become weak.

Therefore, we must support and encourage each other, regard him as a worthy object of appreciation, telling him how his body was fascinated with a certain characteristic, especially men, proud of but few understand what would happen to other people's views on aspects of , such as his good social skills, unknown small habit, and even his fit body.

  Second, what you say you want to
For example: Nana hate her husband before going to sleep without cuddly themselves directly to sleep. When he forgets, she would get angry, not good sleep, or even pretending to cry. And her husband would somehow keep asking her: What hurts you in the end?

You believe that this drama is no stranger to the scene. Like many women are related to Nana, I hope her husband or boyfriend who is a super-perception, without that they can make moves like a romantic, but there is this perception of the world who are really rare, they can not be installed in your heart listening device, at any time to decipher your feelings. If they know you are waiting for him to decipher, will only make them laugh and cry.

In a good couple relationship, this guessing game is resolutely rejected not heart, the most stable deep need to love as the basis of communication without barriers. What, what trouble, what do want them to say, are directly speak out as well. You said nothing to each other at a loss and make their sulking depressed, prone to lead to contradictions and conflicts.

 Third, the harmless habit can ignore
Couples or couples living together long after the personal habits and quirks will be displayed in front of each other, no matter how your mind waves, living together is the test of your patience and tolerance of a beginning. He could whistle every morning while getting ready for work while wearing a tie, it may never have used the towel to throw on the floor. No matter how strange little habit, the wise woman should choose all ignored. You will soon find that these little things one eye closed one eye on your relationship is definitely more good than harm. Now that you have formed the habit of many years, so absolutely no need to waste time on this kind of thing from big arms, do not lose the greater.

 Fourth, once a day to contact
If your partner every afternoon you will receive a text message, you will not feel happy? Perhaps you'll meet at night, but in any case he will maintain this habit, even if only a handful of words. This message became the emotional bond between you, so you know he busy heart still misses you, there is nothing that made you move it? Strong in the relationship between lovers, this is very common, they will not lose contact to each other, even if it is not a day line. Pace of life in modern society, stress, heavy work pressure, it is likely the two successive days can not be met, whether it is phone text message, email or even a small note on the pillow, was simply trying to express: While we can not meet, but our hearts forever.

 V., happiness can create their own
Frequently travel to all kinds of gatherings or parties of the couple often not been good, really has the potential to last forever are those couples who used two of the world. They do not need to look at the human security network of relationships, two people in the world, like them, their own entertainment. Really happy companion relative value of each two ordinary moment with them on the good, do not disturb other people, do not rely on any of the activities and games can be met.

Can really do that? Perhaps you do not believe a couple to have a tacit agreement to sit on the couch for hours watching all of the books, or talk about their fantasy, or even sit in silence thinking that does not need to create topics, nor What background music, because for them, accompanied in each other's side had enough.

 VI also need to check the progress of love
Does not require two people to open a regular meeting every week to discuss aspects of the recent investment in expenditure, and so love is not completed on time and quantity, nor is it that when feelings of insecurity or when friction and self-criticism is necessary to expand two people can openly discuss feelings and take advantage of the progress is necessary. Often sum up your performance and inner thoughts can help you find love, little rough on the road and closed it out of a lot of intimate partner is often used, it is worth learning.

 Seven, always respect each other
If you would like to know a couple are still feelings have deep feelings for the red light, just look at when they look and tone of conversation can be discerned. If any of them give each other dirty looks every turn, sneer or a language irony, you can declare a long time between them is unlikely to go on. If a person who always look down on another, indicating a lack of basic respect between them, which is every couple should try to overcome bad habits.

Although many great strength when you need to exercise restraint and do not comment, but a good lover should not show contempt or ridicule your partner. Sometimes your partner really behave stupid, then it may change position to consider, if you dress down or ridiculed by the other side, you must feel hurt, the role of this force upon the other side he was hit is the same. Should learn to exercise restraint, keep each other's self-esteem is very important for your relationship.

In fact, this happy relationship between empathy, all couples can achieve, there is no a couple of deep understanding and love is born, they must build in some sort of bridge between the two men reached some kind of consensus, so that they follow the common principles gradually better results. Love can always be done as quick as a newly beginning fascinating, the above sum of 7 kinds of relationships with women should follow or adhere to the principle, you want to help.

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